How is a Casket Delivered? - Just Give Me 2 Minutes

When a funeral home receives a casket how does it arrive?

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Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - Mormon Funeral

Floral tributes are encouraged and appropriate for a Mormon ceremony, except do not send anything in the shape of a cross. Crosses and crucifix are not permitted because Latter-day Saints believe in the bodily resurrection of Christ.

Funerals are conducted by the bishop of the deceased's congregation, typically within one week of death and may take place in a church, funeral home or at graveside, they are not normally held inside the temple. Usually It is appropriate to visit or contact the family to offer condolences before and after the funeral. Modest attire (suit and tie for men; dress or suit for women) are appropriate. No head covering is required. Guests typically attend the burial following the funeral service.

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Asian Funeral

In Asian funerals white or yellow mums are appreciated. In China, Japan and Korea, white chrysanthemums are symbolic of lamentation and grief. Yellow chrysanthemums are also a traditional funeral flower.

In Chinese cultures, the family wears white at the funeral and does not wear any jewelry or red clothing, as red is the color of happiness. If you have any questions or concerns about sending funeral flowers to an Asian funeral, you might want to contact the funeral home or a family friend or relative who can provide you with more information.

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Scars In Heaven - Casting Crowns (Lyrics)

Song: Scars In Heaven

Artist: Casting Crowns

Casting Crowns Scars In Heaven

Lyric video of Scars In Heaven by Casting Crowns

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Jewish Funeral

Charitable donations are fitting memorial gifts, please note that flowers are not appropriate. The service is performed by a rabbi and and burial takes place within 24 hours of death. Funeral attire consists of dark-colored clothing. Men wear a head covering known as a yarmulke, which is provided by the funeral home.

After the burial, the immediate family sits in mourning or "Shiva" in their home for the next seven days. It is customary for family, friends and coworkers to come by the home and pay their respects to the family, this is known as paying a Shiva call. Desserts, fruit and Kosher food baskets are traditionally taken to or sent to the home, however, flowers are not appropriate for a Shiva call.

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Roman Catholic

Respectable and somber floral arrangements may be sent to the funeral home or to the family's residence. Donations are appropriate and may be sent in the name of the deceased to their charity of choice.

Before the funeral, Catholics hold the Vigil (Wake). Candles and flowers decorate the wake, as well as the funeral service and the burial ground. It is customary to make a brief visit and spend a few moments in private prayer and then to visit with the family members.

Funeral Mass (Requiem) is performed in a Catholic church by a priest. At the Mass, lighting a candle to celebrate the departed will bring comfort to the mourners. After the burial, family and friends will gather at the home of a close family member to share food and drink brought by family and friends.

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Do This Immediately When You Leave a Funeral

Don't want to spoil the tip...watch the video for what you should be doing!!

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Buddhist Funeral

White flowers are the traditional Buddhist flower of mourning and may be sent to the family. Sending red flowers or gifts of food are considered poor funeral etiquette. A donation to the family or a designated charity in the name of the deceased are appropriate.

At the viewing, candles and incense burn until the body is moved to the cemetery or crematorium. Visitors should greet the family and offer their condolences, then go to the casket and bow. They may then either stay for a while or leave. Visitors will often make a financial donation to the family at the viewing.

The funeral service is conducted by a monk at the funeral home. Guests are expected to bow slightly toward the body (in an open casket) as a sign of appreciation for its lessons regarding impermanence. White is worn by the grieving family, friends often wear black. Friends may call at the home of the deceased's family after the funeral, but not before.

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Hispanic Funeral

Hispanic Religion equates to the Roman Catholic faith among most Hispanics. Many grew up practicing many of the typical Roman Catholic Sunday mass and funeral traditions. The wake may include mariachis, overnight visitations and a family feast. Floral tributes are welcome. A simple bouquet given to the bereaved or a tribute in the shape of a cross or a personalized candle makes an acceptable gift, as does lighting a candle in the church.

Personal items and gifts may be laid in the casket to help the deceased have a successful journey to the afterworld. Burial follows the ceremony. Following the burial, the family usually gathers to eat, reminisce and comfort each other.

Mexicans and Central Americans believe there are days when the dead return to walk among us and that their loved ones' bodies have died but that their spirits live on. They pray to them, talk to them and turn to them for guidance and support.

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Brief Grief Activity: Spa Mask

This week's Brief Grief Activity is all about self-care! It's so important to take care of ourselves and practice self-care. Check out this week's activity showing how to make your own self-care spa mask to take a moment to relax and de-stress.

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Protestant - Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian, Episcopalian and Baptist

Appropriate expressions of sympathy include sending a card, attending the visitation or funeral, sending flowers to the family home or funeral home, donating to a charity designated by the family, or bringing food to the family's home.

The Protestant funeral ceremony emphasizes the afterlife and celebrates the deceased person's life through testimonials and remembrances. A minister usually conducts the service with participation from family and friends. Funeral guests should dress respectably, although most people no longer wear the traditional black clothing.

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Though it’s a sad time, I’d prefer to send a bright, colorful arrangement.

Keep in mind that a sympathy arrangement doesn't necessarily have to be dark and somber. During this difficult time, you can help remind the family to celebrate the life that was lived. Flowers add fragrance, color and beauty to an otherwise somber atmosphere and provide a comforting diversion. An arrangement filled with springtime colors - pink, yellow and lavender are a lovely reminder of hope and rebirth.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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How Grief Changes Over Time

I have combined two different grief theories to describe how I believe grief changes, or really doesn't change, over time.

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How do "sympathy flowers" differ from "funeral flowers"?

Sympathy flowers are addressed and sent directly to a loved one of the deceased.They are usually smaller floral arrangements that decorate end tables or can be used as a centerpiece in the family home.

Funeral flowers serve as a tribute to the deceased at the funeral service. Funeral flowers should never be sent to the home as they are too formal, large and inappropriate for a home or office and can be upsetting to the grieving family.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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I would like to send a gift to the home that’s reverent and not too showy.

When it comes to expressing your condolences in a classic manner, nothing is more elegant than a mix of all-white flowers. White flowers have long represented humility and reverence, while also sending a message of loyalty.

Types of Sympathy Plants/Flowers and their Meaning.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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If Tomorrow Starts Without Me (read by Tom O'Bedlam)

"If Tomorrow Starts Without Me" attributed to David Romano and read by Tom O'Bedlam.

Song by Mattia Cupelli

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I’d like to send a gift that will last longer than flowers.

While many of us think of flowers to express sympathy, plants are a perfectly lovely - and lasting - way to show you're thinking of them. A beautiful way to express your condolence and compassion, plants can be enjoyed for months to come.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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What is a Shiva Call?

If the deceased was Jewish the immediate family will hold a "Shiva" in their home for seven days after the passing. It is customary for friends and coworkers to come by the home and pay their respects to the family, this is known as paying a Shiva call. Desserts, fruit and Kosher food baskets are traditionally taken to or sent to the home, however, flowers are not appropriate for a Shiva call.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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Talking to children who are bereaved

Talking to children when they are about to be bereaved or have just experienced a death may feel daunting. Knowing how children of different ages may react can help. As a health or social care professional, there are many ways one can help families, friends, schools and communities do and say things before and after someone dies that can help children to cope with their loss. This NHS Education for Scotland video aims to enable professionals to facilitate such discussions through an enhanced understanding from the perspective of children who have been bereaved.

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Is it Ok to send a fruit or gourmet food basket?

In some cases, particularly in Jewish cultures, a fruit or gourmet basket is greatly appreciated by a family who is receiving out-of-town guests during the mourning period. This type of gift does double-duty, delivering your condolences while helping to care for and nurture family and friends.. Also, take a look at our Suggestions for Writing Card Messages page.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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What is appropriate to send to the family?

A plant, food basket or small to mid-size designed sympathy arrangement are typically sent to the home of the surviving family members. Any number of floral arrangements are a welcome gesture, including centerpieces, or even a small teacup with flowers. Some choose a small garden of green plants, accented with a blooming plant for color.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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Grief: What Everyone Should Know | Tanya Villanueva Tepper | TEDxUMiami

How do you handle grief? How do you respond to others’ grief? Tanya Tepper discusses her grief over her fiancé’s death and how it has affected her life. Tepper recounts stories and memories of how others treated her and others because of their grief. Sharing her wisdom about grieving, Tepper talks about the misconceptions and misunderstanding she has encountered that surround our idea of what grief is. Tanya is the 9/11 widow living happily “even" after who is featured in the Peabody award-winning documentary, Rebirth, which has a permanent home at the National September 11th Museum. Tanya is a senior advisor and speaker for the nonprofit

organization Project Rebirth, and uses the film to give audiences a personal connection to September 11th while inspiring hope and encouraging resilience to those who are coping with grief and trauma. 

Tanya is also a member of the Advisory Board for Soaring Spirits International, which brings peer-based programs to the widowed community. Each year, Tanya delivers hope, comfort, and laughter through her workshops at Camp Widow, a weekend-long gathering of widows from around the world.

Tanya has written for the Huffington Post and loves her life in Miami with her husband Ray, two young daughters, and their baby bearded dragon.

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I just heard the sad news… Is it too late to send sympathy flowers?

Some people choose to send flowers a week or so after the funeral when the initial chaos has passed. A nice gesture is to send flowers to the home a period of time after the funeral to remind the bereaved that you have not forgotten them and you are still thinking of them and their loss. And even if a few weeks have passed since the death, flowers are a comforting reminder that friends are still thinking of the family throughout the grieving process.

Sympathy Flowers Etiquette

Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Peace Lily Plant

Thought to promote peace, harmony, purity, and innocence after death. The Peace Lily includes all plants in the Spathiphyllum genus. Spathiphyllum means “peace and prosperity” in Latin. Peace Lilies are known for their elegant, star-shaped, white flowers and rich, green leaves.

Christians view white lilies as symbolic of the Virgin Mary. They are also associated with the Easter holiday and Christ’s resurrection, because they appear to die in the winter, but are reborn again in the spring.

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Grief Is A Color - A TAPPS Short Film animation - 1ST PLACE

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Interactive Aftercare

Interactive videos explore the dimensions and dynamics of grief. There's nothing like it: online grief education with style and substance.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Orchid Plant

Orchids say "I will always love you". When giving an orchid plant as a gesture of sympathy, it is important to give consideration to color. Pink and white are traditional colors of sympathy. Varieties such as the phalaenopsis orchid and dendrobium orchid are suggested by florists as appropriate plants to denote sympathy.

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The Invisible Suitcase | Child Bereavement UK

A short animated film to help children, young people and adults understand grief and how to manage it.

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How Would You Honor Life : Reach For The Stars

“Fly me to the moon; let me sing among those stars.” Many of us long to be able to travel among the planets of our solar system and out among the stars. Becoming part of the cosmos may be the perfect ‘send off’ for someone special.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Chrysanthemums

Mums are frequently included in arrangements for funeral services. In some European countries, such as France, Italy, Spain, Poland, Hungary and Croatia, chrysanthemums are symbolic of death and are only used for funerals or on graves. In China, Japan and Korea, white chrysanthemums are symbolic of lamentation and grief, whereas in the US, it symbolizes truth and the flower is usually regarded as positive and cheerful, with New Orleans as a notable exception.

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If you're grieving, this is for you

This is a message from our Activists, who all have who have all experienced grief.

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How Would You Honor Life : Into the Deep Blue

Eternal life as part of a barrier reef. For those of us who love sea, there’s no better thought than our cremated remains providing shelter for the beautiful creatures of the deep. Create a permanent living legacy, to memorialize and honor your loved one.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Gladioli

Gladioli have a tall flower stem composed of multiple flowers that can measure up to 4 feet tall. Typically used in fan sprays as a classic and elegant arrangement for traditional funeral services. The gladiolus embodies strength of character, sincerity, and moral integrity. They are available in a wide range of colors, including white, pink, red, purple, yellow, orange, salmon, and green.

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Grief is like a ball in a box

An analogy of grief.

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How Would You Honor Life : Taking the Stage

“All the world’s a stage, and all men and women merely players.” For the thespian, such a theatrical event would be the perfect end to a perfectly brilliant life. Bring up the lights, and honor the actor and the life they so enjoyed.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Roses

As one of the most recognizable flowers, roses can be a beautiful part of an arrangement of funeral flowers. White roses evoke reverence, humility, innocence, and youthfulness. Red roses convey respect, love, and courage. Pink roses signify love, grace, appreciation and gentility. Dark crimson roses denote grief and sorrow. Yellow roses are given by friends of the deceased to symbolize their strong ties. When you include a single rose in a bouquet it expresses enduring love for the deceased.

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Happy Easter.

From us, Happy Easter. Enjoy your weekend with your near and dear.

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How Would You Honor Life : Playing the Game

Poker, anyone? Maybe Bridge was their game. Or chess. Whatever game they enjoyed, bring it into the service by staging a card party in their honor. Just think of the memories that will surface, as the games progress.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Carnations

Long lasting and fragrant, carnations are a popular choice for sympathy arrangements. The red carnation evokes admiration while a pink carnation stands for remembrance. White carnations stand for pure love and innocence.

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How Grief Affects Your Brain And What To Do About It | Better | NBC News

Understanding grief is an important part of healing after a loved one dies.

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How Would You Honor Life : A Treasured Keepsake

Bringing home such a gift of love can make a memorial service truly memorable. Gather together a beloved collection, whether teddy bears, tea cups, or fishing lures; and share them with the guests after the ceremony to let everyone leave with a memory they can keep forever.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers : Lilies

The lily is the flower most commonly associated with funeral services as they symbolize the innocence that has been restored to the soul of the departed. White stargazer lilies symbolizes sympathy and any type of white lily expresses majesty and purity.

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Brief Grief Activity: Drums

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How Would You Honor Life : A Sporting Celebration

Consider the sports fan. No matter what the sport, there’s an energy, and excitement to being a part of the scene. Bring that energy into the service by surrounding everyone in the favored team memorabilia, or possibly a tailgate party, and share in the traditional ‘game fever’.

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Symbolism of Funeral Flowers

The type of flowers you choose can express your particular sentiments. The traditional language of flowers provides a way to convey your feelings and send a meaningful message. The gift of a plant is often an ideal choice, as they provide a long-lasting tribute to the loved one lost, as well as a constant reminder of the friendship and affection you wish to support the bereaved through the grieving process.

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Brief Grief Activity: Grief Buddies

Make your own Grief Buddies! Sometimes, grief can feel like a lonely experience. Grief Buddies are fluffy pom poms of comfort to fidget with and keep you company during the big waves of grief so that you don't feel alone. 

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How Would You Honor Life : Coming Home

There’s no place like home. Bringing family and friends together in a home or private garden focuses the emotions of comfort found in such a familiar setting. There may be no better place to say goodbye, because home is where the heart is.

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How to Write : Card Messages

It is not always easy to write a heartfelt message that expresses how you feel, especially at a time of sorrow so we have written some card suggestions for different occasions:

Suggestions for Condolence Messages

Most people have a fear that they are going to upset or offend the person who will receive their sympathy words. Anxiety sets in as you try to find the correct sympathy card wording. Don't use phrases like "I know what you are going through" - the reason is that you probably don't know what the person is going through, and even if you do it can come across as minimizing the suffering and pain the receiving person is feeling.

Below we offer more suitable choices for your sympathy message...

• Please accept these flowers and hear the words we are not able to speak
• With my deepest sympathy
• You are in my thoughts and prayers
• With love to you and your family
• In loving memory
• With heartfelt condolences
• My thoughts are with you at your time of need
• I want you to know that I am here for you at this time of grieving
• Thinking of you in these difficult times
• Please know our loving thoughts embrace you
• Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss. Please know that we are here for you.
• Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss.
• In loving memory of [NAME], [HE/SHE] will be missed dearly.
• Please accept our condolences on the loss of your [MOTHER/FATHER/OTHER RELATION].
• Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. From all your friends at [BUSINESS NAME]
• [NAME] will always be in our hearts and memories. With Sympathy, The [YOUR LAST NAME] Family

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Brief Grief Activity: Homemade Playdough

Check out this week’s Brief Grief Activity to see a simple homemade playdough recipe and a creative activity using playdough to show and discuss how to stay connected and remember those who have died in our lives.  

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How Would You Honor Life : A Last Ride

There’s often a special connection between someone and their vehicle. Maybe it’s the fire truck they served on; maybe it’s the motorcycle they loved to ride on weekends. It might even be the love of a fine horse. Bring that love to life by including that special relationship in the services.

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How To Buy : For a Religious Funeral

Honor the departed's religious or cultural belief with flowers appropriate for a viewing or wake, funeral, cremation or graveside service.

Protestant - Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian, Episcopalian and Baptist

Appropriate expressions of sympathy include sending a card, attending the visitation or funeral, sending flowers to the family home or funeral home, donating to a charity designated by the family, or bringing food to the family's home.

Hispanic Funeral

Hispanic Religion equates to the Roman Catholic faith among most Hispanics. Many grew up practicing many of the typical Roman Catholic Sunday mass and funeral traditions. The wake may include mariachis, overnight visitations and a family feast. Floral tributes are welcome. A simple bouquet given to the bereaved or a tribute in the shape of a cross or a personalized candle makes an acceptable gift, as does lighting a candle in the church.

Buddhist Funeral

White flowers are the traditional Buddhist flower of mourning and may be sent to the family. Sending red flowers or gifts of food are considered poor funeral etiquette. A donation to the family or a designated charity in the name of the deceased are appropriate.

Roman Catholic

Respectable and somber floral arrangements may be sent to the funeral home or to the family's residence. Donations are appropriate and may be sent in the name of the deceased to their charity of choice.

Jewish Funeral

Charitable donations are fitting memorial gifts, please note that flowers are not appropriate. The service is performed by a rabbi and and burial takes place within 24 hours of death. Funeral attire consists of dark-colored clothing. Men wear a head covering known as a yarmulke, which is provided by the funeral home.

Asian Funeral

In Asian funerals white or yellow mums are appreciated. In China, Japan and Korea, white chrysanthemums are symbolic of lamentation and grief. Yellow chrysanthemums are also a traditional funeral flower.

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - Mormon Funeral

Floral tributes are encouraged and appropriate for a Mormon ceremony, except do not send anything in the shape of a cross. Crosses and crucifix are not permitted because Latter-day Saints believe in the bodily resurrection of Christ.

Hindu Funeral

The service is conducted by a Hindu priest and family members. They try to hold the ceremony followed by cremation within 24 hours after death. Mourners dress casually in simple white clothes and arrive empty-handed, they do not bring flowers or anything else to the funeral. Guests should not exchange greetings with the official mourners, but instead nod or hug in sympathy - the least said the better. Flower garlands and mixed seasonal sprays of flowers may be in the open casket. Guests are expected to view the body.

Muslim Funeral

Opinion varies as to the appropriateness of sending flowers to an Islamic funeral. Some say the Islamic emphasis on simplicity makes gifts of flowers unsuitable. Others say sending flowers is appropriate.

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Sympathy Wreath - Time Lapse

Watch as a floral foam wreath is transformed into a beautiful, all white sympathy wreath right before your eyes. A gorgeous mix of lilies, carnations, and cushion mums with leather leaf for texture.

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How Would You Honor Life : Comfort Hearts and Nourish Connections

Throughout their lives, they cared for those they loved with good food, lovingly prepared. Now, celebrate that love by sharing their favorites in a relaxed gathering. A chili or seafood feast? Maybe desserts were their specialty. Whatever it was, gather together and savor the memories. 

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How to Buy : Sympathy Flowers

Sympathy flowers and fruit baskets are sent to the departed's home to comfort the family during their time of sorrow. Flowers sent to the family are sympathy expressions of comfort, peace and hope. They say "I'm thinking of you." During times of sorrow, sympathy flowers are messengers of hope. Some people choose to send flowers a week or so after the funeral when the initial chaos has passed. A nice gesture is to send flowers to the home a period of time after the funeral to remind the bereaved that you have not forgotten them and you are still thinking of them and their loss. And even if a few weeks have passed since the death, flowers are a comforting reminder that friends are still thinking of the family throughout the grieving process. A plant, food basket or small to mid-size designed sympathy arrangement are typically sent to the home of the surviving family members. Any number of floral arrangements are a welcome gesture, including centerpieces, or even a small teacup with flowers. Some choose a small garden of green plants, accented with a blooming plant for color.

Read more helpful information, here.

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How To Buy Flowers For A Funeral

Watch How To Buy Flowers For A Funeral from the leading how to video provider. This tutorial will give you useful instructions to ensure you get good at funerals, flowers.

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How Would You Honor Life : The Value of Coming Together

Even with cremation, bringing family and friends together to share memories and to support one another can be done simply and elegantly. Offer everyone an opportunity to collectively being the healing process.

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How to Buy : Funeral Flowers

Funeral flowers are sent to a church service or funeral home. A local florist will deliver your flowers to the funeral or memorial service.

Flowers sent to the funeral home serve as a tribute at the service of the deceased. They add decoration, beauty, fragrance and life to a somber event. They are symbolic not only of love and sympathy, but also of eternity and immortality. Throughout the world, funeral flowers have played an important role in funeral customs because of their fragrant beauty and comforting qualities. In ancient times, tradition called for loved ones to use flowers and herbs to anoint the bodies of the deceased, while aromatic flowers and plants were used to decorate the burial site. Today, flowers remain one of the most beautiful ways to express our condolences when words fail us.

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"To Honor You" - A song in memory of a loved one.

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How Would You Honor Life : A Patriotic Tribute

A Patriotic Tribute

Honoring a veteran can include a 21 rifle salute, a flag presentation ceremony, a graveside ceremony, and even the playing of taps. No matter what you choose to include, such a service always shows your gratitude for their sacrifice and dedication.

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Honoring Life

Honoring Life ...

It's important to take the time to acknowledge the uniqueness of the deceased: the individuality of their personality, and the uniqueness of their life's path. Not just for them, but for you; it affirms the relationship, and leads to healing after a loss. Honoring their life is truly an act of love – for the both of you. 

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How to Simply Personalize a Funeral- Just Give Me 2 Minutes

Do you need an idea for a simple and quick personalization option for your loved one's funeral or memorial service? Kari Northey, a funeral director and embalmer, gives you some quick and thought provoking ideas for gathering items to personalize a funeral!

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How Would You Honor Life : Comfort in Tradition

Comfort in Tradition

Familiar rites and rituals give everyone peace-of-mind. A traditional funeral with an accompanying visitation looks and feels like it did years ago and brings comfort to all.

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What We Do

Explore the Possibilities ...

Visualize the possibilities with our unique planning tool. Scroll through the images with the slider on our website, and when you’ve found yourself inspired, visit Designing Your Funeral for additional support in planning a service as unique as the life well-lived.

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Tribute Videos

Your family photographs are skillfully blended with wonderful graphic images and music, to create an elegantly emotive cinematic video. It can be an integral part of any funeral or memorial service. After the ceremony, the video is sure to become a treasured family keepsake. And, we can make copies as gifts for family and friends.

Visit out website to view a sample Tribute Video.

It's All About the Relationship

 

Honoring the life of your loved one means you value the relationship you shared. We look forward to helping you decide how to celebrate that bond and honor the unique individual you've lost. We can make suggestions to enhance your tribute ideas. Together we will create a fitting and memorable event. Contact us today to discuss the possibilities. (707) 425-4697

365 Days of Grief Support

With our online grief support you’re assured of our commitment to helping you through this difficult time. It doesn’t matter what time of day, or what day of the week you need support, we're here for you. You can access online counseling services, join in group grief support, or watch our interactive videos, anytime: 24/7. No matter how you feel at this moment, you have our commitment - you're never alone.

LETTING THE SUN SHINE IN DAILY EMAILS

When someone you love dies, grieving that loss can take a long time. As in any emotional journey, there are rough spots to be weathered, and moments when you catch a glimpse of a sunnier horizon. We want to be your daily companion, helping you to let the sun shine back into your life. These daily emails provide encouragement and gentle reminders of the recovery process. Interested?

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Veteran's Services

 

We truly believe that the men and women who answered our nation’s call embody the ideals Americans hold so dear. Because they have proven their devotion to their fellow citizens and to a grateful nation, we all owe them the same respect and devotion in return.

WHO IS ELIGIBLE?

In short, the veteran must have been honorably discharged. A more detailed list of those service men and women who may apply for, and receive veterans' burial benefits, with full military honors if they choose would include:

Military members on active duty or in the Selected Reserve

Former military members who served on active duty and departed under conditions other than dishonorable

Former military members who completed at least one term of enlistment or period of initial obligated service in the Selected Reserve and departed under conditions other than dishonorable

Former military members discharged from the Selected Reserve due to a disability incurred or aggravated in the line of duty.

If you have any questions about your eligibility, or that of a family member, call us at (707) 425-4697. If you have any questions about your eligibility or that of a family member, contact the staff of one of our locations.